Pain blinded her and drained her friend sympathy

How do you comfort a gal who is in so much pain? That even if she can hear the advise and encouragement from her friend, she is ignoring them?

So blinded by pain that she failed to see her constant negativity is cutting a rift in her friendships. Her stubbornness in believing in her own perception of what happening.

Unable to see that she is the innocent party, unable to see he is the liar, unable to see that her strong desire to reunite is blinding her clarity in thinking, unable to see that she is caught in downward spiral toward total despair.

How do you comfort a gal who is in so much pain? I guess you cant. Except to be wait for her to wake up. And be there to help her climb out of that spiral she had dug herself in.