Saturday, March 25, 2006

One hand cannot clap alone.

The pool, as usual, was full of children and their parents. Luckily, they did not crowd the pool so much that I have stop when swimming a lap. I swam 12 laps before calling its quits. I realized I needs to improve my free-style.

Bukit Merah SARFA swimming pool is a very nice place to swim, thou you have to be a SARFA member before you can use the pool. It is pity that the camera in my 6320 does not do justice to the scenic view. Else I would have posted a nice pic here.

I am thinking hard whatever to call it quits for my current relationship. The crux of the matter is whether proper respects for each other views will grow over time. There is nothing wrong with not accepting another person advise/view but it is immature to not give the other party a chance to tell it. As a general rule, we will agreed on a subject because it is familiar and regular with our understanding/earning. Hence, isn't there more value when we disagreed on a subject because it present a alternative and different view that is different to our current understanding.

She does not have an open mind, which I find it sad cos it is closes out other different, alternative views that may helps to solve our current and future problems.

I have decided that if she does not call me by the coming Tuesday. It is over for us. I will be sad but her silent says tons about how concerned she is about me. This espisode flush to the surface my hidden lurking ill-sceure feeling about our relationship.

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